Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Online Dating-The Truth About Being Seductive Online

by: Vivian Johnson

I think we will all agree that being seductive is an art. But being seductive online takes seduction to a whole new level!

First, we must all vow to only seduce someone we are romantically interested in.

The truth about being seductive online is, you need to realize everyone is different. So being seductive online means you have to know what will work for the person you are interested in seducing.

If you have known the person for any length of time, read their profile again and re-read some of the emails you have received from them.

You have to “zero” in on areas that they find seductive and romantic.

Once you have done that you will have to plant a seed within their thoughts. Once you find the way to plant this seed you want to plant it subtly. Over the years what has worked best for me is to “preplan” the seduction. The easiest way to do that is to have a “dream” or “thought” that is seductive and share it with the “target”.

This “dream” or “thought” must not be vulgar, crude or overly sexual. If it ends up being overly sexual, you will get a different result.

You want to realize that seduction doesn’t begin when the candles are lit, the love ballads are playing, and the fireplace is burning. It begins in the mind! Once you seduce the mind, the body will follow!

The truth about being seductive online lies in your imagination, in your desire, and in your delivery!

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